Just as New Year’s is known as a time to set personal goals, September can be a tempting time to set new professional objectives. However, one Ottawa wellness expert said giving into any sort of hype isn’t a good way to create sustainable lifestyle changes.
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Just as New Year’s is known as a time to set personal goals, September can be a tempting time to set new professional objectives. However, one Ottawa wellness expert said giving into any sort of hype isn’t a good way to create sustainable lifestyle changes.
“I hate New Year’s resolutions,” said Katie Faloon-Drew, an Ottawa-based health and confidence coach and author. “They fail 90 per cent of the time. So my message, especially in September, is to avoid the trap of these all-or-nothing goals.”
The problem with “fresh start” periods, she said, is that many people set their ambitions too high, gunning to achieve more than they can reasonably fit into their current lifestyle.
Much like January, September brings with it new responsibilities before wellness habits can even be considered. Work gets busier, routines change and, for parents, kids are back to school, meaning homework, lunches and extracurricular activities can start to pile up.
According to Faloon-Drew, trying to add new wellness resolutions on top of that is a recipe for failure.
“That is actually what’s overwhelming people,” she said. “They completely stick to it for a few weeks, then they feel overwhelmed, they feel full of shame, they feel guilt for not doing it. Then they quit.”
Still, health is something Faloon-Drew said professionals should be finding ways to focus on when life gets busy. While she doesn’t recommend running a marathon or changing your entire diet, she said there are ways to prioritize health and wellness sustainability.
That starts with taking your current lifestyle into consideration.
“For people who are going back to work, they’re in this mind frame of, ‘What did I do 10 years ago? What did I do when I had no kids? What is society telling me I should be doing?’” she said. “Really take a step back. We’ve got enough pressure on us. We’ve got a lot to do. Now is not the time to add more pressure to yourself.”
She added that pressure can make habits less enjoyable, which can make it harder to sustain them long term.
“People, especially women, are building their health goals out of a place of shame,” she added. “When we get busy, the thing that falls off our to-do list is the thing that doesn’t make us feel good. When you build health out of shame, like, ‘I need to lose weight, I should work out, or I have to be healthy,’ of course you’re not going to do it. We want to feel comfortable.”
To set achievable goals, Faloon-Drew recommends creating a plan A and plan B for every habit, to take some of the shame out of the practice.
If plan A is to go to the gym for an hour three times a week, she said plan B should be a shorter, less energy-intensive activity that can be done instead of doing nothing when life gets busy. It could be a stretching routine or a 15-minute walk around the neighbourhood.
“So many people don’t create a plan B,” she said. “This is what saves people. When your kid gets sick or you have a deadline at work, cut down on time or frequency, but don't completely give up. It’s not a sprint. Life is a marathon. Give yourself grace to know it’s okay and the plan is going to ebb and flow.”