Small and intimate Grinch Dinner raises $36K-plus for Shepherds of Good Hope

Harmons Steakhouse on Elgin Street welcomes 48-person crowd for $750-a-ticket multi-course dinner prepared by Ottawa chefs

From left, Melissa Shabinsky, John Peters and Mary Taggart co-hosted the annual Grinch Dinner together at Harmons Steakhouse on Elgin Street in support of Shepherds of Good Hope. Photo by Caroline Phillips
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Winter wasn’t the only thing that arrived early this week. So did the Grinch Dinner in support of the Shepherds of Good Hope. 

The popular fundraising dinner is normally held closer to the holidays but, for scheduling reasons, got bumped up this year. Maybe that wasn’t such a bad thing, given how busy life can get closer to Christmas. There are certainly advantages to spreading the holiday season out.

Ottawa’s new premier steakhouse, Harmons, hosted the dreamy dinner last night at its Elgin Street location with the help of Ottawa chefs Michael Radford (Whalesbone restaurant group), Michael Korn (Harmons Steakhouse), Warren Sutherland (Piggy Market), Justin Champagne-Lagarde (Perch), Yannick LaSalle (Supreme Court of Canada), Trudy Metcalfe-Coe (Inuq chef at large) and Wapokunie Riel-Lachapelle (Nikosi Bistro). 

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Ottawa chefs, from left, Michael Radford, Yannick LaSalle, Michael Korn, Wapokunie Riel-Lachapelle, Justin Champagne-Lagarde, Trudy Metcalfe-Coe and Warren Sutherland all pitched in to prepare the Grinch Dinner, held at Harmons Steakhouse on Elgin Street in support of the Shepherds of Good Hope. Photo by Caroline Phillips

 

“Tonight kicks off the holiday season really, really early but, for us at Shepherds of Good Hope, it’s a very important season because the need is always so significant in the community,” David Gourlay, CEO of the Shepherds of Good Hope Foundation, said as he welcomed the 48-person crowd to the benefit dinner.

It raised more than $36,000 to help feed the men and women who rely on Shepherds during the cold months ahead.

This year’s Grinch Dinner was co-hosted by a trio of community leaders consisting of:  John Peters, a partner at Gowling WLG, former Shepherds of Good Hope Foundation board member Melissa Shabinsky and Ottawa at Home magazine publisher and editor-in-chief Mary Taggart as the brand new addition. They pulled together a guest list of friends, family and colleagues for an intimate evening of fine dining. 

The Grinch Dinner isn’t  cheap. A pair of tickets is $1,500 (with a $1,000 tax receipt) but, as Shabinsky pointed out, 100 per cent of the money raised goes directly to the cause. “Every single cost of the evening is covered by donations,” she told the room.

The SGH Foundation board chair, retired wealth advisor Mark Roundell, and board vice-chair, retired CPA Kaveh Rikhtegar, attended. So did Monica Singhal and her husband Kevin Yemm from family-owned Richcraft Homes. The family helped Shepherds open its supportive housing facility on Montreal Road in 2021 through its significant donation.

Peter McCallum, majority partner of the Whalesbone restaurant group (which owns Harmons) was there with his business partner, Robert Gravelle. “It’s an honour to take part,” McCallum told OBJ.social. “We’re always looking to get more engaged in the community, so we love having an opportunity to do things like this.” 

As for the chefs, it’s “refreshing” to participate in the Grinch Dinner, Radford from the Whalesbone restaurant group said of getting to work alongside others from his industry.  “We all have different ideas or things that we bring to the table,” he said of their ability to learn from one another and be inspired.

Marketing and public relations expert Robin Duetta of What’s the Big Idea was back to help coordinate the chefs.

From left, managing partner Robert Gravelle and Peter McCallum, business partners of Harmons Steakhouse on Elgin Street, at the restaurant on Wednesday, Nov. 8, 2023, for the Grinch Dinner fundraiser held in support of the Shepherds of Good Hope. Photo by Caroline Phillips
Guests dined at long rectangular tables for the Grinch Dinner held at Harmons Steakhouse on Elgin Street in support of the Shepherds of Good Hope on Wednesday, Nov. 8, 2023. Photo by Caroline Phillips
From left, Pawan Dilawri, president of Dilawri Auto Group, Monica Singhal, executive vice president at Richcraft Homes, Kevin Yemm, vice president of land development at Richcraft Homes, and Meera Dilawri at Harmons Steakhouse on Elgin Street for the annual Grinch Dinner in support of Shepherds of Good Hope. Photo by Caroline Phillips
From left, Shepherds of Good Hope Foundation board vice-chair Kaveh Rikhtegar with Stephen Assaly, SGH Foundation board chair Mark Roundell, Debbie Roundell and Randy Hicks at the Grinch Dinner, held at Harmons Steakhouse on Wednesday, Nov. 8, 2023 in support of Shepherds of Good Hope. Photo by Caroline Phillips

The humble origins of the Grinch Dinner stretch back more than 30 years. It started as a small get-together hosted by Peters when he was a young articling student. He invited a few friends over while the 1966 animated TV special, How the Grinch Stole Christmas, played in the background.

Coincidentally, he was living in an apartment at the time that’s one block away from Harmons.

Peters’ small gathering grew into a proper house party and evolved from there, to different locations. Eventually, a small cover charge was added to raise money for Shepherds. It only became a serious fundraiser once Peters and his friend, Paul Turner, turned the bash into an exclusive dinner involving the participation of local chefs. 

Turner told OBJ.social he couldn’t have been happier when Shabinsky volunteered to take over his co-hosting role, allowing him to continue supporting the event as a ticket-paying dinner guest. “I just couldn’t do it anymore,” he said of the challenge of being a volunteer fundraiser and of continually asking people for money. 

That the Grinch Dinner lives on is “fantastic,” said Turner. “I’m just ecstatic.”

From left, Paul Turner, who co-founded the Grinch Dinner, was joined by his good friend, Ottawa lawyer Aaron Rubinoff, co-chairman and partner at Perley-Robertson, Hill & McDougall LLP, at this year’s fundraising dinner, held in support of Shepherds of Good Hope. Photo by Caroline Phillips
John Peters, Melissa Shabinsky and Mary Taggart, co-hosts of this year’s Grinch Dinner in support of the Shepherds of Good Hope, welcomed guests to the benefit dinner held at Harmons Steakhouse on Elgin Street on Wednesday, Nov. 8, 2023. Photo by Caroline Phillips

Peters was recently recognized by Volunteer Ottawa with a VOscar Volunteer Award, in the Leadership in Skilled Volunteering Award category. He’s been on the board of SGH since 1993, currently serving as emeritus officer. He also continues to serve on the board of the SGH Foundation.

This year, Shepherds celebrated its 40th anniversary. Peters good-humouredly reflected on how it started: with a knock on the door one Saturday afternoon from a member of the community, wanting to know if Father Jack Heffernan from Saint Brigid’s parish in Ottawa’s Lowertown could fix him a sandwich. The priest, who was a big fan of the Montreal Expos, had been watching the baseball game at the time. He turned off the TV and went to help the man. Not long after his visitor left, two more men came to his door requesting sandwiches, too.

Years later, when Heffernan was publicly lauded for his efforts, he would joke with humility that his helping to feed and shelter the down-and-out was a means for him to be able to watch the Expos on his Saturday afternoons. 

The room also heard that the first person the priest phoned was the late Agnes Devlin when he needed help starting a soup kitchen in the basement of the church. She went on to become one of Shepherds’ most dedicated volunteers, said Peters.

Today, Shepherds serves 2,000 meals a day at its downtown community soup kitchen on Murray Street and at its housing programs across the city, said Peters.  As of this year, Shepherds also has more people living in its supportive housing buildings than it has in its shelters. “Most importantly, of the people that get into housing, get into programs, get the support they need, 99 per cent stay in our housing and they don’t go back to shelters,” said Peters. “Shepherds has come a long way from someone answering a knock on the door and answering the telephone.”

From left, David Gourlay, CEO of the Shepherds of Good Hope (SGH) Foundation, with his colleague, Sharon Adunmo, coordinator of donor stewardship and community events, SGH CEO Stephen Bartolo and Mark Roundell, volunteer board chair of SGH Foundation, at Harmons Steakhouse on Elgin Street for the annual Grinch Dinner, which raised more than $36,000 to help the non-profit organization provide hot meals to the vulnerable men and women in which they serve. Photo by Caroline Phillips
From left, Ian Shabinsky, principal at Glenview Management, with his wife, Melissa Shabinsky, co-host of the Grinch Dinner, seen with Howard Silver, founder and owner of The Silver Group, and his wife, Lisa Johnson, at Harmons Steakhouse on Elgin Street for the Grinch Dinner, which raised more than $36,000 to help the non-profit organization provide hot meals to men and women in need. Photo by Caroline Phillips
Guests dined at long rectangular tables for the Grinch Dinner held at Harmons Steakhouse on Elgin Street in support of the Shepherds of Good Hope on Wednesday, Nov. 8, 2023. Photo by Caroline Phillips
From left, Caroline Rikhtegar, Linda Mulock, Sandra Assaly, Laurie LeGallais and Meera Dilawri at Harmons Steakhouse on Elgin Street for the Grinch Dinner, which raised more than $36,000 to help Shepherds of Good Hope provide hot meals to vulnerable men and women during the upcoming winter months. Photo by Caroline Phillips
From left, Danial Taggart, CFO of Taggart Group of Companies, with his wife, Hayley Magermans, and his parents, Grinch Dinner co-host and Ottawa at Home publisher and editor in chief Mary Taggart and her husband, Chris Taggart, president of Tamarack Homes and of Tartan Homes, at the fundraiser for the Shepherds of Good Hope Foundation, held at Harmons Steakhouse on Elgin Street on Wednesday, Nov. 8, 2023. Photo by Caroline Phillips
Guests dined at long rectangular tables for the Grinch Dinner held at Harmons Steakhouse on Elgin Street in support of the Shepherds of Good Hope on Wednesday, Nov. 8, 2023. Photo by Caroline Phillips
From left, Gowling WLG partner Wayne Kerrick, Shepherds of Good Hope CEO Stephen Bartolo and John Peters, who, along with being a partner at Gowling WLG, is a long-time volunteer with SGH and of its foundation, at the Grinch Dinner held at Harmons Steakhouse. Photo by Caroline Phillips
From left, corporate director and consultant Lori O’Neill, Lynn Pratt, André Dulude and Tim Orr, senior wealth advisor at CIBC Wood Gundy, at Harmons Steakhouse on Elgin Street for the Grinch Dinner, which raised more than $36,000 to help Shepherds of Good Hope provide hot meals to the vulnerable men and women who rely on the organization during the winter months. Photo by Caroline Phillips
Ian Shabinsky (bottom right), principal at Glenview Management, was one of 48 supporters of the Grinch Dinner held at Harmons Steakhouse on Wednesday, Nov. 8, 2023, in support of Shepherds of Good Hope’s efforts to serve hot meals this winter to men and women in need. Photo by Caroline Phillips
From left, David Gourlay, CEO of the Shepherds of Good Hope Foundation, with Peter McCallum, majority owner of Harmons Steakhouse and of the Whalesbone restaurant group, and his long-time friend and customer John Peters, an Ottawa lawyer and co-host of the Grinch Dinner, which raised more than $36,000 to help the non-profit organization’s efforts to serve hot meals to men and women in need this winter. Photo by Caroline Phillips
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